Think about the solutions rather than a problem

//Think about the solutions rather than a problem

Think about the solutions rather than a problem

Thinking in form of “either – or” does not work. It is a dilemma and the structure of stress, anxiety and poor decision-making. We flip an inner unresourceful future picture – as if it is now… and then scare ourselves.

We lock ourselves as if there were only those two moments in time, which is a fallacy. It is a thinking mistake that links to feeling bad. No way in – no way out. — In life there is no “either-or” but there is movement, whether we want it or not.

The solution is to remind ourselves to think and speak with the verbs that describe moving through time. For example: I am learning… I am moving toward… I am noticing more and more… Check it out. It softens the dilemma and makes you part of things. Speak in positive directions always moving forward.

www.DorisNLP.com

2019-09-04T06:35:15+00:00 September 4th, 2019|Blogs|0 Comments

Leave A Comment

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Where People are the Heart of the Matter

We are strongly committed to safeguarding subscribers' privacy.
We promise to not share your information to any third parties.